"Judgemental"....pausing for a moment here..ahem(clearing my throat)...whatttaaa word ! Sensitive and Debatable 😉 So how many of us must have been in a spot where we perceived or tailed on a pre-conceived notion about a certain place, a certain someone or a certain situation! I would say perhaps all of us at some point in time in our life and we still end up falling into that same trap ! Talk about maintaining consistency 😉 haha !! I am going to speak for myself for now 😉, so I have been in situations where at the beginning I may not have a liking for someone for multiple and mixed reasons, to name a few may be I judged them too soon on their talk, expressions, body language, demur etc.(not like I am perfect at it ) or little birdie would have said something about them that added to my belief of not warming up to them, until I was proven wrong about it (Thank goodness)....Sigh!! Like they say dont knot your kickers too soon 😉 So my bagfull of experiences makes me realise that the magical clock of universe is indeed magical and with time our initial coldness starts blooming into a beautiful warmth. This phenomemon then takes you by surprise that how you cave into something or someone that you were once resistant to. The fun part is this situation can also be the other way round. When you end up thinking that someone is so outrightly amazing and you start finding your best friend in them lol (chuckles) as time unfolds the reality, you slowly want to nudge or knock them out of your surrounding !Oops !!The so called "Happy Realization" 😋 So I noticed that the most macho or tough looking might turn out to be the ones with mild innerself who actually can get down to basic domestication , the ones who seem the sweetest can turn out to be flaky, ones that have a hard looking face are the ones who melt at the first ray of emotions, ones that have the brightest of smiles are sometimes hiding a tragedy deep down...well these are just some examples. Everyone is going through their own journey, everyone is fighting their own battles , everyone is looking out to be cushioned. So Be Open!! Be Gentle!! Be Accepting!! Someone might not come across their real self at once but as you get to know them better their personality pleasantly surprises you !! So hold on to your horses before your mind starts racing the judemental track😉
I have been procrastinating all this while and finally got back to my blog page . Must say it feels good. For me 2019 started on a muffled, confused and a busy note. When everyone was churning out resolution after resolution for the new start of the year, I was staring up in the sky wondering about all the confusion this year brought in for me. I was cloudy in my head and wasn't sure as to where life was heading - both professionally and personally. But as they say patience and calmness eventually helps you pass through the shitty times and off course the people who love you help you through it.Well that always comes true for me. I am pretty sure it's just not me but for many of you out there who must have felt the same or have been through a similar concoction in their heads and hearts at some point of time and eventually sailed through it. So all this ranting that I have been doing is to circle around a small word with a big meaning called - JOURNEY !! I am going to write...
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