My Life - But your opinion LOL !!

Where do I start from, uuummmm...before you start reading here's a friendly warning , this blog is going to be slap stick blunt!!. OK lets begin 😁, I am experiencing a deluge of exhilarating thoughts through my head on this - "My Life - But your opinion". LOL LOL LOL. Even while I type this my Alma matter in chuckling away ha ha (giggles😋). Its funny how pretty much every other person around us has or wants to have an opinion about everyone else. Especially our so called extended family and neighbours ...oh and yeah also our colleagues, our buddies(real friends will join the madness instead of throbbing unwanted opinions at you), then our chai wala (tea staler) , house help(I can write a whole new blog on compiling this list) etc etc. Speaking for myself, I personally feel 'Advise' and 'Opinions' should be given ONLY when asked or requested for ELSE just zip it up peeps(I did warn about being blunt)😋. Its ironic that how literally EVERYONE (excluding immediate family) around you thinks that they have better ideas,understanding,advise, opinions about your life and things you should do without even remotely knowing whats your journey or emotions are . When some of my so called friends come upto me and advise me on how I should be serious about making some of my life decisions, in all truth I want to punch their face.(Ouch!! Sorry buddy truth hurts) reason being I have done quite well for myself and not like im some kind of a jobless schmuck. This is just one of the examples, then to amplify things here comes the extended family , by the way who barely know about my where abouts on a daily basis who suddenly appear from nowhere and seem to be MOST concerned about my life choices.(while I am still trying to process their nose poking presence with my mouth open) , and off course the neighbours (apparently our second family) wonder why have so many different varieties of families when we can just stick to our immediate one(who are supportive of our choices and actually let us live in peace). The inquisitive next door neighbour would be all worked up and constantly trying to sow seeds of doubts and despair into your parents heads. That's like their modus operandi. How can I miss out on the colleague's who have more focus on your personal life and what you wear at work than their own performance ratings(oopsy again). My very first thought here is how on earth do these people have so much mind space and time to go snooping into other people's business. Interesting part is people themselves have enough  to figure out things with their own lives but apparently think they are your "Well Wishers" and have the birth right to annoy you with their pseudo intelligence. Appreciate the concers, however Thank you but No Thank you 😋.I might not be following the standard pattterns or timelines of the common man and of the survival instincts , purely because I want to break loose from the monotony and experience life my style or my way (offcourse not distressing anyone in the process). I like being unconventional and taking risks. Its ok if I make mistakes, I'll learn and I will move on. Infact we all do. My clothes, weight, colour, company , job, marriage, kids, car, house , holidays, time etc is my look out. I have my immediate folks(immediate family) who have my back. So while my folks are around and happy with my choices, the others can resign from their duties of Interferences. I am JUST SAYING 😋 !! Sorry if this came with a pinch of salt. Wink wink 😉